This panel will operate on one premise, that traditional relationships are the intellectual property of the patriarchy, and the rest of us who don't fit into that mold are seeking relationships that match our personal style, sharing information, collecting data, and using trial and error to find what works. TL;DR: Open Source Relationships! We will talk about identifying and eliminating toxic behaviors commonly associated with the patriarchy, including feelings of jealousy, possession, and emotional blackmail. This panel is radically inclusive of anyone who falls outside of the norm, whether you have seek zero, one, or multiple partners.